Excited about Our Son

We're having a BOY!!!! We had an anatomy scan done at 18 weeks and 6 days. Everything looked really good! We got to see his brain, his heart, his waist, and we got to see that's he's a boy!!!! He's modest like his mommy though, but we still got to see enough to determine we're having a boy! It's so neat to see a live image of what's in my belly. I could have an ultrasound done everyday and I would still be amazed by the live movement and the ability of technology to capture the sound of his heart and the movement of his legs and arms. Since finding out the gender we have been super uber excited! We were excited before but there's something special about knowing we're expecting a son that makes it real. Our families are thrilled to know the gender! Everyone would have been happy if we were having a girl, I think the excitement comes in when we think about having airplanes everywhere! We already have 2 dressers, a bookshelf, and his crib set, we just need his crib! I've been tempted to buy his crib just so I can go ahead and decorate and finish his room, but then my savings mindset kicks in and I tell myself to wait until after all the showers are done then buy what's left that we need. Speaking of savings, I got a great deal on diapers last week! Harris Teeter had Huggies on sale for eVic members at $5.99 each. So with manufacture coupons and digital coupons, I managed to take home 2 packs of Huggies diapers and 2 packs of Pull Ups for $7.23!!!!! With 26 diapers in 3 packs, 1 pack that had 36 that's a total of 114 diapers which means I paid 6 cents a diaper!!!!! Today I got a pack of Huggies Little Snugglers for $2.13 from CVS, also just 6 cents per diaper! Diapers are so expensive without coupons! Now that I've gotten packs for cheap, I can't bring myself to pay $10 for a 26-40 pack of diapers. With couponing I'm doing well on stocking up on diapers in hopes that I'll never have to pay full price!

I'm 21 weeks and 2 days prego! Time is flying by, but I'm sure I won't feel that way towards the end when I'm ready to see our little guy! I have been busy with washing and putting away used clothes that my mom gave us. It's fun seeing all the cute clothes and thinking about him wearing them one day! And the great thing is we didn't have to buy any of them ourselves! We managed to score a white bookshelf at Wal-mart on Black Friday for $15.87 for his room. We put it together and put his books on it along with airplane bookends! Having the bookshelf in his room has made us realize that we're soon going to have a little one in our home! We put up our Christmas tree this weekend and it dawned on us that next year we'll have a baby crawling around and exploring things so we will have to remove some of the lower branches on the tree to avoid a disaster from happening! We also found ourselves making comments like, "oh he'll love this ornament!" and "we'll have to save this wrapping paper to wrap his presents in next year!" Then yesterday we got Subway for lunch and on the ride home I was making comments about how nasty N's sub was - he likes pickles, mustard, black olives, and yellow peppers on his subs. Then I realized that N hates Cheerios and Cheez-Its, 2 of my favorite snack foods! So for about 10 minutes we joked around about how I'm going to teach our son to always offer Cheerios and Cheez-Its to daddy! Oh I can't wait! It's probably silly of us to be thinking so far ahead, but I think it just speaks to how excited we are about his anticipated arrival!

FREE Cereal + FREE Milk = FREE Breakfast

Super doubles is going on this week at Harris Teeter! I went to 2 times yesterday, 1 with my Vic card and 1 with my mom's Vic card. I used a total of 25 coupons, took home $104.76 worth of groceries for $21.01.

Here's the breakdown of what I got -

• Post Pebbles Cereal $2.79 - $1.50 manufacture coupon in ALL You magazine doubled to $3 off = FREE
• Smart Balance Milk $3 - $1.50 manufacture coupon, doubled to $3 off = FREE
• Chex Cereal Buy 2, Get 1 Free store promo - (2) .50/1 manufacture coupons doubled to $1 off = $2 for 3 boxes
• Sara Lee Honey Wheat bread B1G1 $1.39 - (2) .55/1 manufacture coupons doubled to $1.10 off = .58 for 2 loaves of bread! 
• Country Crock butter $2.79 - $1 manufacture coupon in ALL You magazine doubled to $2 off = .79
• Sara Lee Pound Cake $2.83 - (3) $1 manufacture coupons doubled to $2 off  = .83 each
• Duracell batteries AAA $2.99 - .75/1 coupon doubled to $1.50 off - .75/1 ZVR HT digital coupon = .74 each
• Domino Sugar 5lb $2.79 - .65/1 coupon  doubled to $1.30 off = $1.49
• Riceworks chips $2.99 - $1 printable coupon doubled to $2 off =.99
• Kettle Chips $3.69 - $1 printable coupon doubled to $2 off = $1.69 
• Carnation Evaporated Milk $1 - .50/2 manufacture coupon doubled to $1 off 2 - .55/1 ZVR HT digital coupon = .45 for 2 
• PictSweet Family Size frozen vegetables B1G1 $3.68 for 2 - $1/2 manufacture coupon doubled to $2 off = $1.68 for 2 
• Nestle Cookie dough 2 for $5 - .75/1 manufacture coupon doubled to $1.50 off - .55/1 ZVR HT digital coupon = .45 for and $1 for the 2nd pack 
• Always Infinity pads $3.99 - $2 catalina - $1/1 ZVR HT digital coupon = .99 

Altogether I took home 28 things for only $21.01, an average of 75 cents per item! 

Planner

We have names picked out for Baby Turner, 1 first & middle name for each gender. We are ready to find out what we're having so we can put a name to our first child. We actually had the names picked out before I got pregnant! We are not going to tell the name right away maybe not until the baby is born. I have a strong feeling that our families will like the name we've picked! We were very mindful of possible nicknames, initials, and weird spellings. The names we've picked are not super popular, but they're not strange or unique either. We don't want our son or daughter to be 1 of 3 Ashleys or 1 of 4 Michaels in their class, but we also didn't want an extremely hard name to spell or pronounce because they would get annoying for them and for us. I'm so ready to find out what this little one is!

Everyone knows that having a baby is expensive! Adding another person to our family is exciting though! With a baby comes the cost of diapers, wipes, formula, clothes, shoes, shampoo, soap, and all the other necessities to make baby healthy and happy! I have already been asked if we are going to do reusable, cloth diapers. My answer is no, because we are on well water our concern would be having to flush more often and wash clothes and diaper inserts could be problematic if we were in a drought and I also don't see a need to do cloth diapers since I'm able to use coupons and score major deals! If N were to lose his job again, God forbid, then we might consider it. Since I knew we would one day start a family, back in January I started picking up diapers along the way with coupons. I'm not sure how much I've spent in total, but I can tell you that I have never paid over $5 for a pack of diapers. I typically buy diapers at 8-11 cents per diaper. You might be wondering where I get diaper coupons and how I'm able to get them so cheap. Well I get my diaper coupons from - 1) the back of Cheerios boxes $1.50 off Pampers, 2) coupon blinkie machines on the shelf at grocery stores, 3) my coupon swap group, and 4) Sunday's paper. I have found the best deals at Target, CVS, and Harris Teeter. With Target I've been able to stack a store coupon with a manufacture coupon to save the most money. At CVS, same kinda thing - I've used Extra Care Bucks with a store coupon $5 off $25, plus a manufacture coupon. At Harris Teeter twice now they have had select Pampers diapers for $5.99 each for eVic members and then I've used a digital coupon with a manufacture coupon to get diapers for cheap - $2.99! Coupons may seem overwhelming at first but once you get your system down and you see the savings, it's so worth it! For the first month we have Baby Turner we won't have to worry about buying diapers and we haven't even had any baby showers yet!!

Can you tell that I'm a planner??!!

Never Underestimate the Value of Rain checks or Gift Cards

You can really save money by getting a rain check! Whenever there's an awesome sale price on an item we use all the time I get a rain check on the last day of the sale so I can come back later and buy more.

Here are 2 examples of how I've used rain checks to score some major savings!

1. I got a rain check for Lays 20 Variety pack on sale for $3.97. These normally retail for $6.99-$8.99 each. My rain check was for limit 2. I waited until we were out of chips and I had a coupon for $1 off 2 Lays chips. I was able to get 2 packs of 20 chips for $6.94 so basically the cost of 1.
2. I got a rain check for Huggies Slip On diapers at CVS. The rain check sale price was for $8.99 each, limit 4 and get a $10 gas gift card when you buy 4. I got the rain check because every CVS I went to was sold out the week they were on sale. It was such a great deal I got a rain check. I waited until I had 4 coupons to get 4 packs. With 4, $3 off manufacture coupons and $5 in CVS coupons, I was able to get 4 packs of diapers for $21.25 and I got back $10 in Extra Care Bucks since they were no longer doing the gas gift cards. So with getting $10 back in basically store credit, you can look at it as paying $11.25 for 4 packs of diapers! I saved $14.71 by using coupons!

The point of me sharing these examples is to encourage you to get a rain check the next time you see an item at an awesome price. That way you can buy it again when you need it.

Now here's an example of how gift cards can pay off -

Target is running a special where you get a $5 Target gift card when you buy 5 Glade Christmas fragrance items - candles or sprays. So I bought 4 candles and 1 spray - all of which smell really good! Each item is on sale for $2.50 each, but I used coupons for each item to save even more money. With my coupons I spent $9.40 and I got back a $5 gift card. I used my $5 gift card to buy Huggies Little Mover diapers for only 96 cents!!! The diapers are on sale this week for $9.49, I used a $2 off manufacture coupon and a $2 off Target Huggies coupon, and then my $5 gift card, making it 49 cents with another 47 cents in tax. Gotta love sales tax! So basically I got 6 things for $10.36 which averages out to be $1.73 per item. Not bad considering the Glade items were $2.50 each and the diapers alone were $9.49! 

Waiting Game

I am 15 weeks pregnant! Last night I tried sleeping on my belly and as soon as I laid still I felt the strangest movement, it was definitely the baby moving inside me! It was so weird! I don't know if it was a kick, a punch, or just a spin around, but it felt cool. I told hubby when it happened (he was awake too) and he joked that baby must be trying to say, "mommy don't squish me!" Sometimes I wonder what it's like living and growing inside my belly! Like what does the baby feel when I roll over in bed or what does he or she feel when I laugh really hard? I bet it feels like an earthquake! Last night hubby asked me over dinner, "when are you going to get really big and round?" my answer to him was, "I don't know, my guess is around 18 weeks, but definitely around 25 weeks I'll be huge!" Having a baby bump has been interesting, I thought I would be bigger than I am now, but I'm glad I'm not. When most people think about being pregnant they think about having a cute baby bump and the reality is most women don't have that cute, round bump until 18-22 weeks, which is way later than I thought it would happen. I cannot wait until we found out if baby is a boy or a girl!! It's driving me crazy not knowing if there's a boy or a girl growing inside me! We really want to start calling the baby by their name! Starting this week the baby can hear so we're going to start reading books to him or her! My husband is a great storybook reader!!! I love listening to him read children's book! I'm sure the baby will love his voice and the way he changes voices for different characters in the story. Maybe hearing him read to him or her will make me feel more kicks or punches in the coming weeks!

We are still saving money as much as we can. We went to the State Fair on can day! We only spent $13.50 on food at the fair and only about $3 on 8 canned foods to get in. I was really proud of myself for not overindulging in junk food at the fair! Everything smelled so good though! Every corner we turned I would say, "oh that smells good! I want _____." I really practiced self-control. I wanted funnel cake, ribbon fries, and kettle corn, but I didn't get any of that. I only had a foot long hot dog, some fries, and some ice cream. Last night we went out to dinner for our date night. We had a delicious, filling dinner at Ruby Tuesday's. Believe it or not we only spent $17.07 and that included tip! How did we do it? Ruby Tuesday's has an email club called So Connected. I joined several months ago and it seems like every month they email me buy 1 entree get 1 free coupon. We don't go every time we get that coupon, but we've always enjoyed eating there when we've used that coupon! We could eat out more often or spend more money on date nights, but we would rather think about our future and make smart choices now rather than live it up now and regret it later when we have no money. In less than a year we could go down to 1 paycheck, depending on what I decide to do after the baby gets here so we're trying to prepare for that change.

Confessions

I really want Baby Turner to be a BOY!! I know that I have no control over whether baby is a boy or girl, but my heart really wants it to be a boy! If Baby Turner is a girl then God is going to have to change my heart and change it quick because we only have 5-6 more weeks before we find out the gender! So since I really want a boy first, my 2nd confession is that yesterday I bought Baby Turner an airplane crib set. In my defense I was not looking to buy a crib set. Since N flies remote controlled airplanes I periodically type in "airplane" in the search bar on Craiglist so when I typed in "airplane" on Tuesday night I saw this post for an airplane crib set. Of course I was curious so I clicked on it. I was pleasantly surprised to see an airplane crib set I had never seen before. We had already picked out an airplane crib set we liked at Wal-mart but this one was cuter and more adolescent looking and not baby-ish like the one we had picked out. And to make it even better, I could not beat the price! Here's what I got - 1 bumper, 1 bed skirt, 1 fitted sheet, 1 blanket, 1 mobile, 3 extra fitted sheets, waterproof mattress cover, and 3 receiving blankets are for $25! There's 1 sheet that I don't like because it doesn't match the set and another sheet is girly looking so I will have find a purpose for those, but I still have 2 fitted sheets to use. Everything was in great shape! The lady said she never used the bumper or blanket because she was afraid of SIDS and I can tell they weren't used, they look brand new! So if Baby Turner is not a boy then we'll still save this set in hopes of baby 2 being a boy. Now that you've heard my thinking and rational behind getting this set, tell me what you think of it!

Our Life is Changing!

We are expecting our first child in April! Back in March during our 1 year anniversary trip we talked about when we would want to start trying to have a baby. We decided that getting pregnant in August, September, October time frame would be perfect so I could avoid being pregnant in the summer months. Well God's timing is perfect and He's in charge - we were only in our 2nd month, SECOND month of trying when I took an at-home pregnancy test and it was positive! I took the test at home on August 6th and then the week that followed I had a positive test at my OB's office. Every since then life has not been the same! We feel truly blessed to have gotten pregnant so quickly and when we wanted. The first few weeks we were in shock, it's still unbelievable at times to think it took less than 2 months to get pregnant!

We made it to 12 weeks!!! As of yesterday I am 12 weeks pregnant! 2nd trimester here we come! I have not had any morning sickness, no nausea, no cramps, and no spotting! I feel normal aside from having to pee more often, sleeping more, and eating more at times. At 10 weeks I think I felt the baby move. It's hard to tell since I've never been pregnant, but it was around 9:30 and I was laying in bed and just felt a flutter. It was a feeling I have never experienced before. Since then I feel flutters a lot mostly in the morning or late a night. Our next appointment is this Thursday, but it's only with the nurse so I'm going into it not expecting to find out much like the heartbeat, measurements, etc. Then the following week we get to the see the doctor and I'll have a full body exam done, which will be fun - NOT! I'm hoping we'll get to know the heartbeat or better yet have an ultrasound done which would make the exam worth all the pain.

Preparing for Baby Turner - we already have a TON of stuff! We have several packs of diapers that I've bought along the way with couponing. We have quite a collection of books - Dr. Seuss, Golden Books, and Disney stories. We also have some kid movies - Veggie Tales, Baby Einstein, and Disney. Our plan is not to buy anything until after all the showers. We realize that we may have to buy some of the expensive items but we're hoping to get some gift cards that we help with the cost.

Before Baby Turner gets here - We just had our fireplace cleaned and capped. We plan on getting estimates for tree removal and getting 3 trees removed which will be expensive! We put vent flow directors on all the vents downstairs in hopes of keeping our house warmer this winter. We are enjoying time together and continue to make our marriage top priority. We know that once Baby Turner is here we will focus all of time and energy on him or her and spend less time on each other. We will still go out and spend time together we just realize it won't be the same. Right now we can be selfish and go out whenever we want, stay out as long as we want, and do whatever we want without having to think about finding a sitter, when baby will wake up, and how often baby will cry while we're gone. Yesterday we went out on a date. We saw Courageous and we went out to dinner. We only spent $18.50 on dinner and a movie!!! Yes, I still use coupons! Going out doesn't have to expensive. We had a lot of fun. The movie was really good! We both cried! And dinner was fun, we flirted with each other from across the table. I spun an unwrapped straw on the table acting like it was spin the bottle, it was fun!